selfish woman

We got home from the pool today and I was running around trying to get everyone's shoes and swimming suits off, get Reed down for a nap, check messages, etc. Basically just being a mom. Through all of this Ben keeps asking me to get him some paper. Finally I said to him, "You need to get your own paper, can't you see I'm running around like a banshee?!" He just looked at me and said, "no, you are running around like a selfish woman." I'm just hoping that he doesn't really know the definition of selfish.